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Secrets To Getting Your Ex To Return Your Call

It can be so frustrating sometimes! You need to talk to your ex about something but they won't call you back and you are sure they are deliberately avoiding your calls. So what do you do?

The truth is that your chosen message will be a major factor in whether your ex partner will call you back or not. You want them to return your phone call / text message / IM, so listen up because I'm going to give you the scoop on the magic words to say that will have them dialling you back very quickly.

But before we get to what you should say, let's first have a look at what you need to avoid.

There are two ways that everyone seems to do, but are best avoided if you want to repair your relationship. Firstly is by leaving a message begging your ex to return your call, and secondly the ruse that there is some kind of emergency that they need to contact you about.

I'm sure you don't need me to tell you that both approaches can put you in a worse position than you started from and could potentially damage any further communication that you have with your ex, so even though you might be frustrated that they won't call you, these approaches will not work.

The best thing to do is combine both curiosity and self interest as combined they pack a powerful force.

When you combine the two it creates such a compelling hook that they won't be able to help themselves - they will just have to phone back to see what you are talking about.

Let's have a quick look at an example so I can show you what I mean.

In your best friendly tone say something like ... "Hi Barbara, it's David here, I'm just calling to say that I really appreciate what you did for me and wanted to thank-you in person, give me a call."

Barbara is probably wondering right now what she did that you appreciated (curiosity), and will also feel good because it's such a positive message (self interest).

Of course, you will need to have worked out beforehand what that 'thing' was that you appreciated so much. It should be something believable and real although it doesn't need to be anything big, small things are fine as well.

If they do call, (and they probably won't be able to resist), then keep the conversation light and friendly. Keep the call short and make sure you remain happy and positive no matter how frustrated you really are.

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If you need an underlying strategy on how to proceed from here, check out the powerful Magic of Making Up System at www.get-back-together.info and make sure you watch the video of the first steps you need to take after a break up (scroll down the page for the video). Good luck! I wish you the best in your relationship.

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